Is Rape Legalized In Nigeria?

Several Nigerian women will relate to this story…
You visit the guy in his house… He tries to take off your clothes and you protested…. He overpowers you and gets you naked…. You pull the sheet on his bed to cover your naked body…. He stands up, locks the room and increases the volume of the music in the room to ensure that even if you shout, nobody will hear you…. You sit on the bed terrified and watching helplessly as he prepares to violate you… You want to scream but you know everyone will ask you “what did you go to his house to do?” So you choose to rather appeal to his conscience… You beg him not to do it… He pushes you to the bed, spreads your leg and threatens to hurt you if you fight back… So you give up and he violates you in a painful quickie…. You are wet with tears in your eyes and wet with his semen in your body. You succumb to the tears and let out the cry. He is unmoved. He tells you to ‘grow up’ and stop acting like a baby. You wipe your tears and get up from the bed to put on your clothes…. But to your shock, he had SOAKED your clothes in water to ensure that you sleep over for a night of rape.

Your heart is broken but you are powerless. Your powerlessness comes from the realization that neither the police nor the society will take your case seriously if you reported the beast. Your body was violated again and the beast falls asleep.
Perhaps, the beast was your relative, pastor, friend, school mate, politician, employer or total stranger who gave you a ride on a rainy day.
This memory has been your most guarded secret and every time you read a #MeToo post or watch an #Omotoso trial, you sob internally.
You are consoled that at least women outside Nigeria can get closure through the courts unlike women in Nigeria where rape seems to be legal.

Dear people, if Omotoso ran his Church of Sex in Nigeria, he would still be walking free and collecting seeds from pulpit to pulpit. Rape is not Rape in Nigeria. If the woman didn’t bleed to death, she is said to have enjoyed the rape…Is Rape Legalized In Nigeria?

As Omotoso’s rape trial continues, I say…

#NotInMyName A 13 Year Old #CherylZondi needed a dictionary to learn new words, Not a 60 year old’s DiCKtionary to learn new sex positions. She needed a pencil ✏ to draw her future, not a penis to tear her hymen. A 13 year old is only a 10 years old with an extra 3 Christmases. That’s a freaking 10 + 3 year old infant people…. She only turned 10 years old 3 years before she was introduced to adulthood by an adult who refused to grow up.

While we encourage victims of Rape in Omotoso’s country Nigeria to seek closure from courtrooms, we also celebrate victims of rape in South Africa for their bravery and courage.
Together, we shall Make Africa Great Again where our women will be loved and not raped, respected and not violated. But until then, I wonder, IS RAPE LEGALIZED IN NIGERIA?

My name is Charles Awuzie and I wrote this in tears and shame.
Maranatha.

THE CONSEQUENCES AND EFFECT OF RAPE

By: Rev. Kathy Kiunu


THE SECRET OF MARRIAGE SCHOOL

Marriage is the only school where you get the Certificate before you start.
It’s also a school where you will never graduate.
It’s a school without a break or a free period.
It’s a school where no one is allowed to drop out.
It’s a school you will have to attend every day of your life.
It’s a school where there is no sick leave or holidays.
It’s a school founded by God:

1.On the foundation of love.
2.The walls are made out of trust.
3.The door made out of acceptance.
4.The windows made out of understanding
5.The furniture made out of blessings
6.The roof made out of faith.
Be reminded that you are just a student not the principal. God is the only Principal.

Even in times of storms, don’t be unwise and run outside.
Keep in mind that, this school is the safest place to be.
Never go to sleep before completing your
assignments for the day.
Never forget the C-word…Communicate.

Communicate with your classmate and with the Principal if you find out something in your classmate (spouse) that you do not appreciate. Remember your classmate is also just a student not a graduate,
God is not finished with him/her yet.
So take it as a challenge and work on it together.

Do not forget to study the Holy Book (the main textbook of this school). Start each day with a sacred assembly and end it the same way. Sometimes you will feel like not attending classes, yet you have to.

When tempted to quit find courage and continue. Some tests and exams may be tough but remember, the Principal knows how much you can bear and yet

it’s a school better than any other.
It’s one of the best schools on earth;
joy, peace and happiness accompany each lesson of the day.

Different subjects are offered in this school, yet love is the major subject.
After all the years of theorizing about it, now you have a chance to practice it. To be loved is a good thing, but to love is the greatest privilege of them all.

Marriage is a place of love, so love your spouse and build by wisdom

10 UNDENIABLE LESSONS IN MARRIAGE

COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGE IS PROVE OF LOVE

By: Dr Chinomso Jude Nwala


THE MYSTERY AND SECRETS OF SPIRIT HUSBAND

The case of spirit husband has taken roots for several years in the lives of many ladies before they get to know about it which makes it difficult to defeat it. In order to stop the secret Havocs in your life, you need to know these truths:

Spirit husband is a demonic spirit, So, it can’t be detected by medical doctor or scan. This is the reason many denied its existence. They are wicked demons which deal with their victims without mercy. You will need a spiritual power which is resident only in the name of Jesus Christ to overcome them.

(1) THEY EASILY ATTACK THROUGH SEX:

The easiest gateway they use in entering into the life of a lady is through sexual intercourse. If you are the type that gives in to sex for money or to every Tom-Dick and Harry, you can easily become a victim without knowing.

(2) RECEIVING GIFTS FROM MEN IS A RISK FACTOR:

As a lady, it’s better for you to realize that receiving gifts from different men put you at a risk of becoming a victim. Especially, gifts like clothes and under wears which can easily make you susceptible to spirit husband.

(3) THEY CAN PLAGUE WITH SEXUAL IMMORALITY:

At times, when they get hold of a victim, it can make a lady become promiscuous. That is the reason some ladies are full of sexual immorality even when they gain nothing from it. They may not like that kind of lifestyle but they lack the willpower to stop because there’s an evil force of spirit husband behind it.

(4) IT CAN MAKE YOU HATE GETTING MARRIED:

Some spirit husbands are so jealous to the point that they will plaque their victim with hatred towards men and getting married. Men may be begging for their hands in marriage but they will keep turning it down without a course.

(5) IT STIRS UP VIOLENCE AND CONFUSION IN MARRIAGE:

Even if a spirit man allows some ladies to get married, it can be the cause of misunderstanding, violence, and confusion between the husband and wife. This incessant fight can lead to murder, separation or divorce as no physical mediation will be able to address it.

(6) IT CAN CAUSE FINANCIAL DEPRESSION IN THE FAMILY:

Due to hot jealousy, the spirit husband at times may cause financial difficulty in a family as he makes the physical husband lose his job or experience total loss and collapse of business without knowing the root cause. It will make all doors of help and opportunities to be shut against such a man.

(7) IT CAN CAUSE INCESSANT SICKNESS:

In the lives of the children and husband, it can stir up incessant sickness that will make the wife be carrying her children and spouse in and out of the hospital. Some can be so brutal to the point of causing cancer, liver or kidney problem which kills within the shortest time and also killing the children.

(8) IT CAUSES A PROBLEM WITH WOMAN’S FERTILITY:

Spirit husband can cause barrenness, series of miscarriages, fibroid and other reproductive problems in a woman. It can also make a woman detest having sex with her real husband despite the fact that the husband is loving and caring.

(9) AS A LADY, DON’T JOKE WITH YOUR DREAM LIFE:

Take your dreams serious, if you have been dreaming of swimming in a river, eating with a man, bathing with a man, carrying a baby, delivering a baby, getting married, breastfeeding or having sex in the dream, you really need to wage a spiritual war over the spirit husband.

THE MYSTERY AND SECRETS OF SPIRIT HUSBAND

Women’s Misconception About Weddings And Marriage

By: Dr Chinomso Jude Nwala


DON’T KILL YOURSELF! MAXIMUM EXTREME RANGE OF SEX IS 13 MINUTES

For married men and women only. Stay away from Tramadol!!! Men Please, stop killing yourselves with aphrodisiacs (Sex Enhancing drugs).

Depending on what side of the sex duration spectrum men fall on, an average of five minutes is good.

But, according to a 2008 study of United States and Canadian sex therapists, sex that is “too short” lasts one to two minutes, “adequate” lasts three to five minutes, and some extreme condition is seven to 13 minutes.

It seems that anything longer than ten minutes is unusual. So, why then has the issue of sex in marriages become a hard nut to crack?

Today all medications in the market, has it is written on their labels: sexual weakness.

This is giving ladies the impression that the maximum Five minutes of sex isn’t enough making them pressure the men to seek for supporting aids (aphrodisiac).

The youth are dying early because of the usage of these drugs.

Knowing therefore that the maximum range for sex is 3 to 5 minutes, our women are to be content with what their husbands offer them.

Men are also to remember that the pistle damages earlier than the mortar. Be wise and stay healthy and strong.

Men! Men!! Men!!! How many times have I called you? Take note and beware!

After daily hard work, it is sucideous to be under the influence of Tramadol to satisfy your partner. Most women don’t like long sex as much as fore play or romance.

Some student asked a medical professor; how long should man have sex and when is the right time to have sex? The professor said; “have sex as long as you hate to die and have sex only when you want to get weaker than you are.”

Please show this to the men/women in your lives to prevent early death.

DON’T KILL YOURSELF! MAXIMUM EXTREME RANGE OF SEX IS 13 MINUTES

MEN BEWARE! LIFE HARD STRUGGLE WITH LONG SEX MAY KILL YOU

HOW SEX DESTROYED NAOMI’S LIFE

By: Andy Akporugo Jr


AMBODE AND THE MOURNING AFTER THE LAGOS APC PRIMARIES

Because democracy is a corporeal sport, we do not expect a miracle at the day’s retirement when the results of the Lagos APC gubernatorial primaries would be announced. It will be the kind of result that makes non-participation a more honourable activity; but it wouldn’t rob Mr. Akinwumi Ambode of the self-respect of deciding, in the mute company of his own shadow, how his story will end.

Surely the size of his defeat, loudly planted on his disownment by those to whom he continually ascribes his paternity, would hurt him deeply and he would want to proceed from the lost battle into an outright war, where he would fancy that he would have the last laugh, trophy in hand and cloaked in an apparel made from patchments of the shredded egos of his godfathers and their accomplices. Trust me, he would find noisy endorsements were he to so choose. But I hope he would fall, by the inducement of an overfill of his favorite brew of which I am not now at liberty to mention, into a deep, long sleep on the matter and return fully convinced of the consequences of his own decisions.

And if he chooses a war, let it be a war based on ideas that further our fair humanity, about which he must not be deterred by the possibility of another rout. For although some wars are suicidal, it remains true yet, that in the battle of ideas, suicide may be the only glory that its honour demands!

AMBODE AND THE MOURNING AFTER THE LAGOS APC PRIMARIES

Question would be, what ideas will Ambode be fighting for? If we are to be recruited into his war, we must understand what they are. It will certainly not be against the evils of Godfatherism without him first offering some atonement for his luxurious benefit all this while, since the only reason he ranks above the rest of us in the first place is his anointment by the Godfather.

We watch and wait then, for that time tomorrow when he wakes up from his defeat and hopefully speaks from the assurance that at least until May 29, 2019 he yet has the ascribed love of us all, something the rest of us are not blessed with!

‘‘Warri no dey carry last’’, they say. And Ambode is a Warri boy!

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No girl, no women, no life

 

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