Izobofolo’s Blog

These are some tips about child psychology and behavioral management to all parents, grandparents and teachers. Here are some unbelievably simple parenting ideas that work.

1. TOUCHES: Children need a minimum of eight touches daily to feel connected to a parent. If they’re going through a particularly challenging time, it’s a minimum of 12 a day. This doesn’t have to be a big deal; it could be the straightening of a collar, a pat on the shoulder or a simple hug.

2. EYE CONTACT: Each day, children need one meaningful ‘eye-to-eye’ conversation with a parent. It is especially important for babies to have that eye contact, but children of all ages need us to slow down and look them in the eyes.

3. BEST TIME OF IMPACT: There are nine minutes during the day that have the greatest impact on a child; The first three minutes right after they wake up, the three minutes after they come home from school and the last three minutes before they go to bed.
We need to make those moments special and help our children feel loved. These are simple, right? Nothing really earth-shattering here.

Try these tips to manage and train your child;

A. Whenever u feel like scolding or beating your child, take a deep breath, or count 1-10 and then act. (think about the consequences before action).

B. Let’s ask them to study their favorite subject on their own. (don’t dictate for them, but guide them through their desire)

C. Send them to write exam when they refuse to study. (don’t help them to pass,  teach them to succeed).

D. Remember what our kids are learning in basic 5 is taught to basic 7 pupils abroad. (don’t blame or burnish them when they fail…let it be a lesson). Also don’t encourage galloping education for them, because there peers are ahead of them).

E. Lets keep our kids out of unwanted competition (don’t encourage galloping education for them, because their peers are ahead of them).

F. Higher degrees don’t only guaranty success and happiness for children (show them love, care and give the some level of choice).

G. Kids are always in a party mood, don’t spoil their childhood. Support and let them be what they want to be.

Let us change the way we train, care and manage the wellbeing of our kids.