By: Emmy Rene –
DOES LOVE GUARANTEES RELATIONSHIP? Statistically, I have found out that love does not guarantee the success of a relationship. Love alone cannot let u stick to one person. After all, cheating isn’t always a product of not loving your partner. In fact, loving someone does not guarantee not falling in love with any other person.
Relationship work out mostly because of our head not our heart. It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline. Times will come when you will meet people that are better than who u are in a relationship with.
In those times, love will not help. Self control, emotional discipline and commitment will, no matter how u feel about someone, the person you committed to ranks first in your life.
You think married people don’t see better people than the ones they are married to? You think they don’t feel funny sometimes? You think they don’t catch feelings?
But the understanding that commitment is greater than feeling is a great arsenal to destroy that impulse!
You can fall in love with anyone but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them. It takes more than love.
We are fond of loving when its convenient, when its sweet, we are fond of loving we feel the love is there but, that can only take 3-6months of the relationship. After then, you realize the feeling have dropped. Its now your responsibility to make it work and not love’s responsibility. We feel with our brain and not our hearts…
The brain has emotions..