The woman is the General Manager of the home and has the spiritual mandate to be subservient to her husband, just as the husband has the mandate to love and care for her. Without the woman the home is not complete and without the man the woman is not complete. Any Godly woman who desire a loving and caring husband, should practice the following Godly management tips;
1). Never raise your voice for any reason on your husband. Its a sign of disrespect. (Prov 15v1)
2). Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other’s keeper. (Ephesians 5v12)
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don’t have a happy home. (Proverb 15v13)
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you’ve no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband’s friends because you don’t like them, the person who’s supposed to get rid of them is your husband. (Prov 11v22)
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties or seek formal permission for exceptions. (Genesis 2v24)
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility. (Ephesians 5v33)
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband’s sweat is too precious to be wasted, help him save and manage.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him the way he wants it. Sex is very important for marital relationship, if you deliberately keep denying him, and he keep burning inside, your prayers will not be answered. for ungodly husbands, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over the duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long (even the anointed ones) (Songs of Solomon 7v12)
11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do. (Songs of Solomon 5v9)
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him (except permited), although he may answer for you in public opinion polls. (Proverb 31v23)
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of your children. Wise Women don’t do that. (Ephesians 4v31)
14). Don’t forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out. (Proverb 12v4)
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband than you do, be his best friend.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks. (1Samuel 25v3)
17). Your parents, family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don’t waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave. (Luke 21v16)
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don’t forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home. (Galatians 6v9)
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.(Galatians 6v10)
21). Do not be too judgmental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.(Ephesians 4v29)
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife, she may not even know that her body needs a bath. (Proverb 24v27)(Proverb 20v13)
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking style and meal time. Most men don’t jokes with food. (Proverb 31v14)
24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes. (Luke 11v3)
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Proverb 31v11)
26). Don’t associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage. (Proverb 22v14)
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable. (Hebrew 13v4)
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well. (Proverb 22v6)
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Proverb 31v28)
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family. (1 Thessalonian 5v17)
Every successful home must have its roots or bedrock on mutual understanding. As a woman use this tips to correct or grow relationship and care for your husband. Make the bible your best reference point; all you wish to become has been achieved by someone.