is sex bitter

By: Charles Awuzie


OMG! DID YOU HEAR WHAT HAPPENED IN SUMMER OF LOVE? – First of all, let me state boldly and firmly that Jesus is the beginning of love and He is the end of love. Outside Him, no love exists….. Calm down if this blows your mind, read on.

Sometime in 1967, the 60s Hippies Group organized what they called SUMMER OF LOVE. Please Google SUMMER OF LOVE. Summer of love was an event that sought to promote a CHRISTLESS Love. People were told to love anyone or anything. Do you know where it ended? Wild sex…. Orgies…. Gay sex….. bestiality… Pedophilia…. And all sorts of things… Then Blood Shed…. Murders….suicides … Killings…. Arrests….. Confusion…. Etc.
Over 100,000 people attended the SUMMER Of love, and the end of that ‘love’ event demonstrated that No True Love can exist outside Jesus who came as the Love of God unto us. For more on the summer of love, see this link https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Summer_of_Love

Recently, one of the propagators of the ChristLess love attacked my wife and myself. The attack was so bad that I had to question if she truly knew what love is all about. She then sent a private apology when she realized my wife was getting lawyers in America involved to deal with her defamation of our character and other issues we also know about. While I was wondering how their ‘love’ could be so wicked and heartless, I remembered the event of 1967 – Summer of Love. Everything began to make sense to me. Truly, there’s nothing new under the sun. These things have happened before. People have tried several times to find love outside Jesus Christ….. Just like a woman who tries to seek for love outside her husband or vice versa…. Just when they claim they have found a love without Jesus, bitterness sets in…. Inner pains…. Restlessness…. Loss of focus….. More confusion…. They begin to loss relationships, peace and soon, some of them lose their lives…. This happened in Summer of Love…. This is the story of all CHRISTLESS LOVE.

But on another thought…. Should we love beyond religion? Yes. In fact, a big Yes. The love of our Lord Jesus Christ is not bound by the walls of religion. Jesus brings love to everyone – atheists, Muslims, Christians and those who dangle between atheism and Christ. When you Embrace Jesus, you will find the purest love. Not the kind of love that led to the disaster in 1967. But the kind of love that has kept the universe ūüĆĆ together for millenniums – Love divine. That love that guarantees peace. That love that heals. That love that saved the world. The correct hashtag is #EmbraceJesus not a confusing #Embracelove. What love? Let’s be more specific or at least genuine.

We might disagree on doctrines…. Cool. We might disagree on religion. Cool. But let’s never disagree on the absolute truth that TRUE Love is not in religion but in CHRIST JESUS. Let’s then make it clear to those around us that when we speak about love, we speak about the Love expressed through Jesus Christ. And hey, you also don’t have to make this clear if you are atheist or an unbeliever in Christ. But make it known that you don’t believe in Christ so that those around you will not be deceived. Be transparent. Be genuine in your intentions. Be honest in your presentations. We know love, we believe in love… We are awake to love… Not the love that is ChristLess… But the Love which we found in Jesus. Same love is why we warn the simple minded ones to be careful of anything that represents the SUMMER OF LOVE. We also know that the ancient serpent offered Eve love outside the Truth. Beware of anyone offering you love outside TRUTH. JESUS IS THE TRUTH. In Him is true love. If you argue this simple and plain truth, you are an atheist and we mark you and still love you.

My name is Charles Awuzie and I love you deeply.

Credit Marriage Pink
Republished: Izobofolo’s Blog


HOW¬†SEX DESTROYED NAOMI’S LIFE –¬†Naomi, was so beautiful, pretty and cute like the most beautiful female journalist at KTN. She was well shaped and every time she was walking around in Jamuhuri estate where she used to live, no man could by pass her without looking at her back. She was admired by almost every man in every place she went to but she fell in love with one guy from Ngong.

They met at Churchill Show at Carnivore Restaurant and that’s where everything started from. The guy was loving and caring. They started as friends but later on became lovers. She loved him so much such that she gave him all her heart. He was the one who was keeping the keys of her heart. Their relationship became so strong. The guy could not wait for their marriage. He started demanding to climb the tree in the middle of the garden of Eden or to ride the mountain bike for 20Km. Naomi, could not resist because she loved him so much.

One day he asked her to spend night with her at Karen Country Lodge in Karen. She accepted in the name of love. Before she could leave for a sleep over, she told her parents that she was going for an overnight prayer meeting at Wold Harvest Int’l- The Hour Of Blessings. Her parents allowed her to go since it was an overnight prayer meeting. From there she took a quick shower. after she finished, she dried herself up and applied some lotion, then she dressed up and left for Karen to meet her lover. She arrived safely and had to meet with her lover. They spent a night together at Karen Country Lodge and the guy did what he really wanted the whole night. No CDs were used. It was a live musical performance.

Naomi got pregnant and the guy dumped her. He left Ngong and started staying in Thika with his elder sister. He even changed his contact number. Naomi, was really heartbroken broken. She was ever crying with her pregnancy till she delivered after nine months at RUNH (Ruaraka Uhai Neema Hospital. She delivered a cute baby girl. The guy was no where to be seen. He forgot about her.

5 years later, she met a guy who was so handsome like her real father. The second guy she met used to live in a very nice place in Kawangware actually a city within a city. He was so caring and loving. It was so interesting the way their relationship started. They knew each other from Prestige Mall where the guy used to work. Every time Naomi came to buy her groceries at Prestige, she could meet with the guy and he could crack jokes and Naomi could laugh out loud. They became good friends and one day he asked for her number and she gave him. They started calling and texting each other almost every day. On his off day he could visit her in Jamuhuri but he never used to reach her home. He could stop somewhere near her place where they had agreed to meet every time he visited her. As days went by, they became so close but Naomi never disclosed to him that she had a kid.

One day when he proposed her she had to share her story and all she went through. She told the guy that she had a 5 year old daughter. The Kawangware guy was so much in love with her so he said, “Sweety, it happens I can’t leave you just because you have a kid. I love you and I will always love you the way and who you are”

Naomi responded in tears, “Honey, I love you more.. please never disappoint me like the previous guy.. hold me tight till the end of time..”

Kawangware guy, “I will definitely do that”

After he graduated from Kenyatta University ¬†where he was doing his part time studies, they got married. He started supporting her daughter (Charity) like a real father. People could not tell that he wasn’t the real father because of the love and care he was showing to the daughter and mother. After he got his degree ¬†from Kenyatta University and got a job with Airtel and stopped working at Prestige Mall. He started making some good income with Airtel. So they shifted from Kawangware as a family and started staying in Hurlingham. In Hurlingham that’s where they had their first child (daughter) and they named her Peggy. The guy was so happy to see and hold his first child in his arms. It was so nice and awesome to have his own child but still he treated his own daughter and step daughter the same. He bought them almost the same things and took them to the same school. So Charity and Peggy never knew that they were step sisters except their parents and some relatives who knew the secret.

Noami, as the mother never wanted to be a house wife for the rest of her life. She also wanted to be doing something so that she could contribute something to the family. So she asked her husband if she could do some studies for herself to start up her own business. Her husband supported her move or suggestion but she could not take a degree because she never had a good grade for the course she wanted Certificate. So her husband enrolled her at Kabete National Polytechnic ¬†under Secretarial Studies. He even bought her a Vitz so that she could drive herself to and from school. From Monday to Friday she could drive herself from home to school till she wrote her final examination and cleared everything. After she got her results, She applied at Daystar University and was accepted and started studying Business Administrationat dip level. In her final year at Daystar, her Ex boyfriend appeared. They met at Arcades and the Ex had to kneel down for her and pleaded for forgiveness as he was shedding tears. Naomi, broke in tears too when she remembered all she went through after he dumped her. They hugged each other and they had lunch together. The Ex humbled himself as though he was not a crook. Naomi’s husband did not know that her Ex was back in Nairobi and their friendship or relationship had begun again. The Ex could follow Naomi at Daystar most of the time and they could talk from there. One day she shared her story with her good friend at Ebru TV and the friend was like, “Please, forget about this EX boyfriend of yours. He will put you into serious problems.

Naomi, “Okay, but I don’t know what to do coz I still love him. He asked for forgiveness and said he was sorry for everything he did to me. He wants us to get back together..”

Friend, “Noami, how will your husband feel when he discovers that you are going out with your Ex”

Naomi, “No wonder am saying i don’t know what to do..”

Friend, “Here is what you have to do: Avoid your Ex. Give him a distance. Don’t entertain him. Delete him from your mind and phone book. He is jealous of your happy marriage. Be very careful you may lose everything”

Naomi, “Okay, thank you so much. I will definitely follow your advice”

Naomi never followed the advice of her good friend at Ebru TV. She continued going out with her EX boyfriend till she was caught in the very act by her husband in Pangani. Her husband was like, “Is this where you do your studies from? Have they shifted Kabete to Pangani?” He slapped her and started beating her Ex boyfriend. After being beaten, the Ex boyfriend ran away. The husband drove home and packed all her belongings. Few minutes later, she also arrived home and her husband was like, “Don’t get inside the house here are your things you can leave with your Ka daughter (Charity). Charity (step daughter) was like, “Dad, what’s wrong?” Step father, “Ofuwo kendo oran! Just get out with your foolish mother” Charity broke in tears. She looked at her mother cried out loud. The husband got the car keys for the Vitz from her hands by force. Naomi, was in tears and she said, “Honey, please forgive me”

Husband, “You thought I was a fool. I have heard a lot about you with your foolish Ex, and todey I’ve witnessed myself. Please go and marry him, malaya hii”.

Charity was shocked and wondered , “What wrong have I done? Why are you chasing me with my mom and leaving out Peggy?”

Step Father, “Am not your dad okay? Ask your mom where your foolish dad is and she will tell you”

Charity, looked at her step dad and her mother and cried bitterly. Naomi and her daughter (Charity) left. They boarded a bus at Yaya Centre and went to Jamuhuri to stay at her parent’s home. Her happy marriage just ended like that. Her Ex boyfriend disappeared from Nairobi again and went to settle at the Coast. Charity, asked her mom who her real father was but her mom never gave her a satisfactory answer. She just said, “Never Mind”

Charity stopped going to school because her step dad stopped paying school fees for her at Brookhouse School. Peggy the real daughter continued schooling and was fully supported by her dad but she missed her step sister Charity. One evening when he came from work she asked him about Charity her step sister. She really wanted to see her. The father was bored with questions about Charity, “Just forget about her. She is not your sister”

Peggy, “Ummmm dad how? I have known Charity to be my real sister and why did you chase her?”

Father, “It’s a long story never mind”

Peggy, “Okay, but I really miss her.. I feel lonely without her”

Charity, was also troubling her mother in Jamuhuri that she wanted to see Peggy. Peggy and Charity loved each other so much as sisters and it was very hard for them to stay apart or separately.

Naomi lost her beautiful marriage. She couldn’t even write her last exam at Daystar. Everything just went sour. She was ever crying at her parent’s home every night. She remembered the words of her good friend from Ebru TV but nothing could be reversed. It was too late to realise and apologise. She lost it all. Every time she remembered how her husband loved her so much she could not hold back her tears. Two weeks later she was found dead in her bedroom. She took some poison according to the postmortem report at KNH.

After they buried, Charity went to see her step father in Hurlingham and when she reached there, she found just about to leave for work. She looked at him and said the following words as she was shedding tears, “Dad, my grandmother in Jamuhuri told me how I was born. I may not be your real daughter or you may not be my real father but I have been raised to believe that you are my one and only father I have ever known in my life. It’s hard for me to live without you and my young sister Peggy… Dad, I want to live with you forever and I love you so much… Please, accept me as your own..” Before she could finish talking, her step dad and sister (Peggy) broke in tears and hugged her. He accepted her as her daughter and started staying with her again. He took her back into school. Peggy was so happy to live with her step sister once again. They could go to school together and study together.

Later on he married an SDA woman who took care of the two girls (Peggy & Charity) at home. The girls had really grown. Peggy was in class 6 while Charity was doing class 8 at Brookhouse school. The girls were also intelligent at school.

Noami’s Ex boyfriend ran mad at the Coast and 5 days later he was found dead in unfinished house.

If you don’t want any problems in your current relationship or marriage or life, forget about your Ex. Give him or her a distance. Don’t entertain them. They will destroy everything.

If you still love your Ex, please don’t jump into another relationship or marriage. Ex boyfriends or girlfriends will always disturb or destory your current relationship or marriage. Some of them are even jealous of your beautiful relationship or marriage. If you Still want your Ex in your life, please don’t engage yourself in any relationship. What good is your Ex going to bring or provide or show now that he failed to do when you were still together?. Please, wake up and grow in mind!! Stay married to your husband or wife, ¬†and live happily forevermore… Good night dear.

Upholding Carnality Over Spirituality In The Name Of Fashion

Credit Marriage Pink

by: Izobofolo’s Blog


THE DIFFERENT STAGES OF MARRIAGE

Great leaders, I have a leading to share this piece here believing it will heal our marriages which will facilitate the success of our homes and ministry. Be blessed as you read.

  1. THE AMAZEMENT STAGE: This is the “wow” stage. Lots of new things to discover with your spouse. The newness, the freshness is so amazing. Sleeping on the same bed, wearing the same attire, cooking for him, doing house chores with her, bathing together. Wearing your dazzling wedding wears everywhere, turning people’s head at the newest couple around. Loads and lots of fun. Sexual exploration and excitement. Being in control of your kitchen, feeding him and lots more. It’s the honeymoon stage and it’s so so beautiful.
  2. THE IRRITATION STAGE: This is when you begin to notice weaknesses you have overlooked or blissfully wish they go away but didn’t. The repetition of such weaknesses begins to work on your nerves and you are getting irritated: he snores a lot, she is slow in the kitchen, she belches loudly, he screams unnecessarily, she won’t bathe before coming to bed or shave, he spends many hours watching football and ignores you when you talk. “What’s just wrong with this guy?” You think aloud, well it’s part of marriage.
  3. THE ANGER STAGE: This is when the repetition of such weaknesses gets on your nerves and you display your anger. The introverted partners stuffs it in and either keep malice, avoid you or stubbornly continue with the irritating habit. It’s the stage you begin to wonder: “have I really married the wrong guy?” “Have I married the wrong woman?” No, you did not, you are simply going through a phase together.
  4. THE RESSOLUTION STAGE: When you both begin to face the reality of marriage and acknowledge your partner’s weaknesses. You eventually realize anger and malice does not solve any problem and begins to find ways to deal with your differences, both of you begin to compromise here and there and adjust to each other.
  5. THE ACCEPTANCE STAGE: When it dawned on you that some things are just part of your partner and may never change till end of times. You resigned from anger, abuse and quarrel and choose to accept them, lovingly adjust to them and enjoy them regardless of their weaknesses.
  6. THE RESTUL STAGE:This is the stage you permanently accept them with all their strengths, weaknesses, short comings and flaws and love them unconditionally regardless of what they do. This is real love -agape, divine and true. You reconnect emotionally, spiritually and physically at a deeper level and enjoy honey moon again while building a lasting marriage regardless of the challenges you face.

MARRIAGE MATURITY ‚Äď THE CAPACITY TO ENDURE UNCERTAINTIES

There is no perfect marriage. Every marriage goes through this stages. How you handle it will determine if you will come out bitter or better.

You don’t have to abuse your spouse or keep malice if you are truly a believer and you obey the word of God daily.

Nevertheless, do not be disappointed if you go through the unpleasant stages in marriage. It is a phase and will surely end.

Handle your marriage with wisdom and keep loving regardless of the challenges you face. That is what will make your marriage a heaven on earth experience…there are different stages in marriage, patience and tolerance is the answer.

HOW TO BUILD A GODLY MARRIAGE

THE REASONS FOR THE OBSESSIVENESS OF MARRIED WOMEN!

By: Victory Izobofolo


THE REASONS FOR THE OBSESSIVENESS OF MARRIED WOMEN!

Cheating¬†married men who could not care less about what marriage has meant to their fellow women! Have you ever wondered why some married women completely loose it, throw tantrums, troll their husband ‘snatchers’ ¬†online, embarrass themselves by physically confronting other women and become possessive of their husbands following cheating episodes? Have you ever wondered why it’s a lone battle to a married woman?¬†

Apparently, women are more obsessive of marriage than men. Because they invest so much emotional input in it. They dive there with their hands and feet and hang in there as if their breath depends on it. It’s a good thing. Because nature made sure that women are keepers and men are not.

Married women belonging to cheating men are indeed bitter women. To them, cheating is a security breach that risks them into loosing all the time and hard work invested in marriage. Marriage is literally ‘life’ to some women. So what do you expect them to feel when their ‘lives’ are under threat? Bitterness and more bitterness. Nothing breaks a woman down than the thought of loosing her husband to a potential competitor. That’s one of the worst emotional pain in women. While you might want to look at it as a simple harmless moment of fun with another female, your wife will see her life crumbling down. Depression will kick in and disturb her for a long time. Women rarely heal from the pain they experience following infidelity from their husbands. While you might choose to look at it as a ‘harmless arrangement’ between you and her husband to sleep together for money, the wife is usually going through unbearable psychological pain and disorientation thinking of all the selflessness she gave so that the man can make that money he’s paying women with. She gave you kids thinking you will honor her for choosing to mother your kids only to realize that you are having kids with other women and even fathering those from single mothers.

THE REASONS FOR OBSESSIVENESS OF MARRIED WOMEN!

And amidst all her pain, she chooses to stay and blame other women for stealing you. Because the love she has for her husband will blind her to see any faults in him. She will blame other women, men, brothels and the world for breaking her marriage but not her husband. She still wants her husband home. Since her life depends on marriage, as a covenant acknowledged by God. Nature is amazing. 

Let’s think twice about what married women go through and be responsible for our actions before making sexual advances at other women or agreeing to those advances from married men. It’s inhuman to disregard the feelings of another human being just because you want to erect inside another female, or sleep with a married man for his family’s money.

THE REASONS FOR OBSESSIVENESS OF MARRIED WOMEN!

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By: Rev. Uche N. Peters –

LET ME EXPOSE SOME BITTER TRUTH IN LIFE AND MARRIAGES.

PLEASE DON’T BE ANGRY WITH ME, I MUST SAY THIS BECAUSE I LOVE YOU AND IT’S EATING UP SO MANY FAMILIES. (Current practical life realities in marriage…no Bible context)

This may shock you but it’s the truth in this race of marriage.

A man may cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him.

That’s why when you’re dating a married man and you mistakenly talk about his wife, at that moment he will be very angry with you, I know so many women are aware of this.

I say this because men do not have sex with emotions, and women can’t have sex without attaching emotions to it, Yeah.

This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.

Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men.

A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless THE MAN EXCEEDINGLY ABUSES HER PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY TO THE POINT OF KILLING HER.

Men don’t equate sex with love.

A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn’t love her.

That’s why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men.

But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband).

She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.

For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things.

For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love).

Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn’t mean he has stopped loving you.

But I can’t say the same for women.

Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again.

And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.

If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years.

It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead.

That is the main reason why it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him.

I know the Bible didn’t encourage any man to Divorce his wife for cheating and I will never encourage you too, she can still change.

Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinary criminals or weapons.

There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can’t detect this as the same woman tend to moan more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.

That’s why psychologists discourage women, more than men, from cheating.

Like as I’m doing now.

Women can’t handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.

That’s the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect for their husbands and try to avoid sex with them in most times.

Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have sex with their husbands.

Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable sex with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife’s behavior with regard to sex start changing.

But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerates fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.

Women can’t cheat on their partners with people they are not emotionally involved with. They attach emotions to everything.

That’s why you can’t always trust their judgment.

When a joke is cracked, most women who laugh are not laughing because the joke is funny but because they like the person who cracked the joke.

If they don’t like you, no matter how funny your joke may be, they won’t laugh, but when a man laughs at a joke, it’s because the joke is funny, not because he likes the comedian.

Men are not always sentimental and emotionally involved.

Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love.

But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.

I repeat, nearly 95% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited sex freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can’t wish their wives quick death or divorce.

That is why most men can’t allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends.

Men will always stand for their wives.

A man would cheat but still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.

Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near. May God help us.

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