Women empowerment

By: Nandi Cakes


Why Men Shouldn’t Marry Women Over 30!

Over the years, they turn down potential husbands, go on a partying spree like they have frozen time, only to arrive at 35 with nothing to show for it other than a dead-end job, a car, and sometimes a child from a relationship that never quite worked out

So, now they are stuck in a phase where they will never find a man of their dreams and have to settle for any man who will be gracious enough to even suggest marriage. By now, all those flimsy and shallow standards they used to have are gone, humility is their second name.

I have seen many women on Twitter in their 20s buy into the misguided, feminist belief that men and marriage are bad for their academic and career advancement. What feminism does not factor in, is that the older a woman get, the less a chance she stands of marrying someone desirable.

Let me share with you from my observations on the signs that a woman is likely to end up single and lonely, and why young ladies must stay away from these practice to avoid been single for life!

  1. She values education and career over marriage and relationship. She’s always throwing statements like “Marriage isn’t an achievement at age 20 to 25.”

  2. At age 30+ she has more liquor in her refrigerator than fruits and vegetables.

  3. She can take down more shots than any of her peers at 30+ who have kids

  4. She’s into smoking cigarettes and addicted to weed.

  5. Her idea of fun at age 30+ is a night out with the girls.

  6. At age 30+ she still insists on only dating men based on what their career is. “He’s a lawyer” “He’s a doctor” “He’s an engineer”

  7. The idea of cooking for a man is a total turn-off to her.

  8. She has never forgiven her father for abusing her mother, or her first boyfriend used to abuse her and she now thinks every man is violent and controlling.

  9. She is so much into fashion, and hair-styling she doesn’t want to be identified as being old in her circles

  10. Her job involves a lot of travelling.

  11. She can easily find a parking spot at Taboos (unholy places) than her way to church.

  12. She believes in absolute equality in marriage without any sacrifice or compromise.

13. She becomes a born again and cover her body properly at 30+ to increase her chances of suitors.

Reasons Why Men Do Not Marry Women Over 30 are: 

Firstly, women over-30 have a lower fertility. If you want to build a family with these ladies, be ready to possibly have a downs syndrome child.

Secondly, when you marry a 30+ woman, you’re possibly marrying her 30+ penises she’s had over her long life on earth. She has more bodies than a grave yard.

Women over-30 are very bitter from the wasted prime spent on failed relationships she hoped would lead to marriage. Now that you’re marrying her, she should be grateful, but she’s not. She’s always just angry.

By marrying a woman over 30+ you are possibly investing everything in a rapidly depreciating pleasure provider that has already lost a lot of its aesthetic value…She will be wrinkled in the next 5 years and already having back problems.

Many guys these days are marrying early 30’s women, and then, almost immediately – Bam!. It’s over almost before it began. It’s because you are trying to make ancestors housewives. Leave these dinosaurs!

Marrying an over-30 woman, is like buying a used car with 1 kilometre short of its 120,000 kilometres servicing. The over-30 woman can fix herself up enough to fool the prospective provider/hubby for a short while, and once the line is dotted she shows her true colours.

Exceptional Conditions

Many women who are not married in their late 30s today, never saw it coming. They had a plan: finish their first degree, masters, a job, a promotion, make money, be independent and settle down by 30, latest 32.

Some are tied down due to culture and religious unrealistic practices; that the will of God takes time, if a man cannot spend plenty money to marry you he is not real man etc. Such women need counseling and direction.

Late marriage is not the best, if you choose to be a celibate due to religion it is good, but don’t deliberately wait until you are 30+


 


By: Abigayle Mutua

I am not a feminist. I never have been, am not now and I never will be.  I don’t know why many people think that having a ministry to women means you’re a feminist.

I am a woman,  I hold women in high esteem but I also KNOW that no woman can take the place of a man in the world. Man still remains the First creation of God in His image and likeness. God created man first because He wanted man to be the first, the head and the figure. He placed seed in a man and gave him a command to be fruitful, not seedful because man already had in him what it takes to become fruitful and to multiply. Then God looked at man and saw that in order for man to be fruitful he needed a mate.  So he pulled out of man a womb man(woman). Which means that he created woman because he needed to make her a help meet and her need was attached to man’s purpose.

God did not create Elena and Eva. Nor Adam and Steve. Because what was in the Man needed an incubator to be produced. So God created woman for man.

MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE HOME. whether the woman makes more than her husband,  has more influence than her husband…He REMAINS THE HEAD.

This is an order that cannot be reversed no matter how much we campaign for feminism and equality. It just doesn’t cut it for me.

THIS IS WHAT AM NOT – A FEMINIST – I DON’T BELIEVE IN EQUALITY IN THE HOME!

Let’s not forget that in creation, WOMAN was the first Rebel. Then could it be that the reason why God commands a woman to submit to authority (her father, then her husband) is simply because deep inside every woman there is a rebellious nature?

Equality, Feminism and Homosexuality is not a plan of God.  Why?  Because it defies God’s divine purpose.

God created Adam then Eve. The man bearing seed and the woman the incubator for the seed.  Adam and Steve cannot fulfil purpose because no one will incubate the seed and help to build the home!? Elena and Eva cannot fulfill purpose because there is the seed carrier.

We have to be careful with what we permit in our society and most especially in our churches. God is a God of purpose. Whatever He does, he does it with a purpose designed in it.  

The plot of the enemy is one: to stop humanity from being fruitful in purpose, because he knows people who are fruitful in purpose, can multiply and when they multiply they can replenish, and where they replenish they subdue all other forces and powers fighting the purpose and hence can TAKE DOMINION.

So Satan fights the natural order and design of creation by bringing in demonic doctrines to counter God’s purpose. 

So am proudly not a feminist.  


 

By: Dr chinomso Jude Nwala

Can you imagine a woman who always fight with her husband teach people on how to build their home? Listening to her is like; telling an igbo man to use fork to eat garri(eba). Can you imagine a blind man leading the blind to a war front? It is abnormal.

How can a woman whose home is not organized be teaching people keys and ways to maintain a successful marriage, how can a young lady whose relationship is shaking and always having issues be teaching people how and ways, and keys to build a sweet Godly relationship.

This is totally madness and those who listen to such people are doomed. Listening to them is like grooming in darkness. Deep calleth to deep, whom you hear determines who hears you. Are they limited to those principles they teach others? If the principle you teach others doesn’t work for you then it is satanic. Don’t you know that charity begins at home, or are you looking for a peaceful home to scatter? If what you teach doesn’t reflect in your life you are evil. Don’t be like some fruits that are beautiful outside but rotten inside.

It is fraud to teach people how to treat their husbands/wife or how to maintain good relationship with their boyfriends/girlfriends when you have not taken care of your own, please stop that nonsense. When people see your principles work for you then they believe you more… (Selah)

By: Andy Akporugo Jr

A city girl, she rises from her bed and leaves it unmade until the returns at close of day and then folds herself for the following night’s rest, unto its most straightened corner, a cycle she repeats until help comes from her spouse, who for fear of being labelled misogynistic had all the while quietly borne the pain he doesn’t share with his father, as he pretended to fall asleep on the news, in the settee.

She doesn’t cook because she cannot cook although she knows how to cook. She makes hobby of only those things that take her away from the house or into her telephone or computer, and now on account of the requirements of correctness which don’t describe whose job it is by gender assignments, she has made daughters whose unchallenged experiences are sure to make them seek life outside the homes of their own husbands” hearts.

And when I ask in my father’s voice, ‘‘so what does your husband get from you then’’, she responds: Companionship! If he wanted all those things you talk of, he would have gone to the village to get a wife.

Shuoooooooo! But I must close my mouth – this is 2017. We must all be international! But again, shuoooooo!!! Wetin come be “wife material” nowadays? Na wa oooo!

http://www.thevoiceofawoman.com

http://voicesofwomen.org

http://www.inannawef.org

 

By: Ada Chinyere Cummings

A woman came to me and said, “my husband is cheating on me and it’s breaking my heart. What should I do?”

I responded; “If I were your husband, I’ll cheat on you very well. In shot, I’ll sleep out with my girlfriend most nights.”

She responded; “I thought you are a good woman, I didn’t know you are very wicked. God will punish…”

I interrupted her; “Hold it there before you complete whatever you want to say and curse yourself.” I’ll say whatever I wish to say to you, because you are just a wicked woman.”

She kept talking, I kept quiet for a while and allowed her pour out her anger and free her mind, knowing that the pain inside her was not really meant for me but for her husband.

As she was about walking out of my house, I said to her; “Do you know you have dirty body odour, I mean, the body odour that comes from being dirty, not the permanent one?”

“The neatness of a woman is the perfume for love.”

She paused just at the door of my house, looked back, with a face almost sober. I blinked and said. “You need to take care of yourself. You are on the fat side and need to take your bath at least 3 times a day if you can. Look at your side ears”

I gave her tissue paper to clean her ears and she was surprised at what she saw.

I then said to her; “if you were the man will you stay with a woman with this dirtiness?” You can see why you are not attractive to him at all…so that’s why your husband is looking elsewhere.

I admonished her to go home, take good care of herself, mostly the hidden parts and dress neatly…and then watch what will happen. I added saying “don’t expect a love miracle to happen, but gradually, everything will fall in place as time unfold. She should not forget to pray, it’s always a saving grace.

She responded saying; “Thank you so much, my sister. No one has spoken to me in such a manner. Thank You and may God bless you.” She left with a bright mind that reflected on her face.

“We should Always keep neatness very close to our heart.  Neatness is very important, we all should embrace it, most especially women. Advice them when they come to you” Yes, the approach matters, but it all depend on the individual.

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