A man’s enemies will be the members of his own household. (Mathew 10:36)

For a son dishonors his father, a daughter rises up against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law– a man’s enemies are the members of his own household.(Micah7:6)


A household enemy is a human being who is a member of your family or the extended family that doesn’t want your progress but indirectly works against you.

A household enemy is that family member or close friend that pretends to be in support of you, laughs with you, play with you but stabs you at the back.


(1) The enemy from outside cannot get you without the help of household enemy

(2). It is always the household enemy that sell you out to the outside enemy

(3). Every family on the planet earth has household enemy

(4) Our fierce battles comes from household enemy

(5) They are full of pretence.


1. They work with the information  given to them.

2. They pretend to love and act like they will die for you.

3. They always ask you questions on everything you do just to get informations and to make you think they care.

4. They are always around you like mirror and face


1. Barrenness of all kind

2. Bad luck

3. Continues problem or repeated problems

4. Rising and falling

5. Chronic poverty

6. Rejection

7. Demotion

8. Constant failure

9. Constant quarries in the house

10. Constant sickness and disease in the house

11. Backwardness

12. Profitless hard work

13. Late marriage

14. Accident customer

15. Living a trouble life

16. Inability to stop addiction and bad life style

17. Same sex of children example girls, girls and girls

18. Chronic unemployment

19. Get and loose syndrome


1. Thank God for his protection upon your life and family and his goodness upon you.

2. Ask God for the forgiveness of sins of your parents, your siblings and the sins you commit both known and the unknown sins the household enemy is using against you.

3. Invite the holy spirit to take over your house, room, body, soul, spirit and your prayers.

4. Invite the war angels of God to assist you fight against your household enemies as you continue to pray.

5. Cover your house, body, soul and spirit with the blood of Jesus.


1. Angels of fire, kill the household enemies of my life, in the name of Jesus.

2. Thunder of God, strike the covens of my household enemies, in the name of Jesus.

3. Brime stones of God, fall upon the head of my household enemies, in the name of Jesus.

4. Invisible hand of God, slap to death all my household enemies, in the name of Jesus.

5. Consuming fire of God, consume now, the head of my household enemies, in the name of Jesus.

6. Thy angel of dead, visit and kill all my household enemies that troubling my life, in the name of Jesus.

7. Blood of Jesus Christ, nullify the powers of my household enemies, in the name of Jesus.

8. You evil altars of my household enemies, I command you to catch fire, in the name of Jesus Christ

9. Evil hands and voices, supporting my household enemies against me, Die by fire, in the name of Jesus Christ

10. Evil mirrors of my household enemies, break by thunder, in the name of Jesus.

11. Network of my household enemies against me, scatter by fire, in the name of Jesus

12. Darkness of blindness, consume the eyes of my household enemies against me, in the name of Jesus

13. You the throne seat of my household enemies, hear the word of the Lord, catch fire, in the name of Jesus

14. You the monitoring spirit of my household enemies, against me, catch fire in the name of Jesus

15. You household spirit of cobweb of rejection, demotion, failure upon my face, catch fire in the name of Jesus Christ. (pray it for some minutes)

16. My job in the hand of my household enemies, be released by fire, in the name of Jesus

17. My C.V in the hand of my household enemies, be released by fire, in the name of Jesus

18. My marriage in the hand of my household enemies, be released by fire, in the name of Jesus

19. My star in the hand of my household enemies, be released by fire, in the name of Jesus

20. My destiny in the hand of my household enemies, be released by fire, in the name of Jesus

21. My foreign passports in the hand of my household enemies, be released by fire, in the name of Jesus

22. You my household enemies, diverting my original destiny, Die by fire, in the name of Jesus

23. You my household enemies, calling me to divert my blessings, Die by thunder, in the name of Jesus

24. The satellite of my household enemies fixed against me,, blow up by thunder, in the name of Jesus

25.  Oh God my father, transfer the problems of my household enemies upon me, to their children, in the name of Jesus.

26. Sword of god, cut of the head of my household witches and wizards, in the name of Jesus.

27. Household enemies, using my opportunities to gain promotions in dark kingdoms, fire of God consume them now, in the name of Jesus.

28. Oh God of heaven and earth, restore what the household enemies has stolen from me, in the name of Jesus

29. Oh God of restoration, restore my stolen mandate in the hands of my household enemies, in the name of Jesus

30. Oh God that restores jabez, restore my original life and glory, in the name of Jesus Christ.


1. Begin to thank God for answering your prayers

2. Cover your body, soul, spirit and prayers with the blood of Jesus Christ

3. Lastly read psalm 109 aloud

You will be shocked that when you do this prayers continuously for at least 3days, Some things will begin to manifest out, those you think they are good to you in your family will begin to confess.

Ref: Dr Chinomso Jude Nwala

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(For Women)
Written by: Theophilus Izobofolo – 

The day to day challenges of taking care of a family is tasking and managing the home finances is more tasking and frustrating.
Below are 15 ways to create and manage a budget according to your income and family size. It will enable you provide your daily and monthly needs to satisfy your household short and long term demands.
1. Take expenses Inventory: Take inventory of your household capital projects, basic needs, necessary wants and recurrent expenditures. Create expense categories like; school fees, rent, mortgage, utilities, entertainment, transportation, repairs and maintenance, groceries etc.
2. Set priority list on the inventory: Set a priority list to know the important needs or wants for the family. All expenses shouldn’t be incurred same time, so as to avoid bankruptcy.
3. Set a Realistic Budget. As a woman you can set your households budgets as daily, weekly or monthly terms; according to the family income. Yes, sometimes preparing a budget can be tricky and tiring, but do your best to tag price to every item and manage the little money in your hands.
4. Understand the difference between fake and original: Most women who don’t pay attention to details are always cheated in the market, they only look at the face value or appealing nature of an item; they will first buy the fake and later go and buy the original. Don’t waste money on fake or expired items, be vigilant. When you know the fake you will buy the original and spend less.
5. Fix a time to incur capital expenses: important household needs like; food, cloths, cleaning items and other needful comes regularly. But fix a time in a month, quarterly, bi-annually or annually to spend on major expenses like; school fees, mortgage, rent etc.
6. Go to groceries with a list: track your spending habits with a list when you go for shopping, human wants are insatiable and most women has cultivated the habit of buying what they don’t need and eventually give them out as gift or abuse the items.
7. Record current prices: when you come back from shopping, record current prices in your budget file or book and compare to determine future budgets. Most prices are not fixed they rise and fall.
8. Pay utilities with online payment methods: When making payments for utilities like; Electricity, LAWMA, Internet subscription etc., use online payment methods to avoid lost or robbery and additional transportation to and from unit centers. Asides possibility of lost of theft, it helps to manage time and prevent you from buying substandard items.
9. Plan budget Management with household members:   managing household, planning budget and enforcing it alone as a woman will be very difficult or even impossible. Call for a family meeting to explain the budgets or change in the budgets and how you plan to enforce the budget in the home. In the meeting constitute laws like; prohibit general wastage, limit or restrict members from eating expensively outside the home, switch off the electricity meter when absent from home or sleeping at night, determine when to host a visitor, mend damaged cloths as opposed to buying new once, have a first Aid box at home for emergencies etc., with this and many more you will cut down on your household expenses and increase savings.
10. Plan strategies to Increase Savings: Cultivate the ideas to save. like; patronizing a particular store or customers that do cut down prices on your items. Sell all the items you don’t need in the house as scraps. Buy some household utensils online and on time when the shopping center is very far away from you. Cultivate a strong negotiating skill during purchases except for supermarket where prices are fixed.
11. Don’t buy on credit: Whatever you can’t buy now must wait for the next budget. Don’t buy on credit but manage your resources within the time of scarcity or little. Always make preparation for option B’s in your budget to avoid public disgrace when asking for credit purchase. In worst case scenario short down secondary needs or wants (expenses), to attend to your primary demands or at worst bear the period of lack. Nothing remains the same forever except change and God.
12. Don’t borrow to satisfy wants: Many women have cultivated or are possessed with the “SPEND ALL HABIT.” Some have the glutton habit, lust for fashion and parties (entertainment), at the detriment of their homes. When some don’t get what they want from their husband, workplace or friends, they begin to compromise their loyalty and faithfulness to their home and spend the money for the household on themselves. No woman has completely satisfied their wants on earth, so don’t borrow for temporal satisfaction and later spend the money for the household to pay the debt. Cut down on general consumption.
13. Make provision for contingencies: The first two purposes for holding money are precautionary and speculative. Asides the precautionary motives you have made provisions for in the weekly, monthly or quarterly budget, always make provision for unseen possible and impossible contingencies for expenses like; healthcare, security, etc.
14. Cultivate a futuristic plan for your household: The third motive for holding money is transactional. As a woman plan with your husband and household members (children) to save for investment purpose. The future responsibilities are bigger than the present. The only source of income will not last forever.
15. Prayerfully handle your household plans: Anything done in isolation of divine backup, may work but do not gain perfection. As a woman ensure to plan your household management with God.
If you can put into practice all of these tips to manage your household finances, double your savings and create an investment, then you will be a good home manager.
For further counseling and coaching contact:

Theophilus Izobofolo on 07068056521 or